Love flourishes, value is formed and people start to care more when there is understanding.

Three people share the same thought.

"When we really see each other, we want to help each other." — Amanda Palmer, Ted Talks

“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them the way they love themselves. And then, in that very moment when I love them.... I destroy them.” — Orson Scott Card, Ender's Game

And the third person is me.

Understanding is important. Love, trust and careness build on the strong basis of understanding. That is where connection begins.